Bar So is a multi-floor cocktail bar and nightclub located within the Grade II listed Royal Exeter Hotel on Exeter Road, Bournemouth. It offers a combination of relaxed drinks on its terrace and a lively dancefloor atmosphere under one roof. This page covers Bar So’s drinks, layout, location, practical details and who it suits.

What kind of drinks does Bar So serve
Bar So’s main focus is cocktails, with an extensive menu of classic and contemporary options made using premium spirits and champagne. The upstairs bar is designed for enjoying these drinks in a sociable, relaxed setting. It features a long drinks list that includes signature cocktails alongside well-known favourites. In warmer months, the upstairs area sometimes offers light food, though this is not the venue’s primary focus, so it is advisable to check the latest menu on the website before planning to eat there.
Downstairs, the emphasis shifts to a more celebratory style of drinking. Bottle service is available, with VIP tables ideal for birthdays, group nights and special occasions. These tables come with dedicated service and a range of celebration packages, making them popular for larger parties. The downstairs bar also serves a selection of beers, wines and spirits to complement the cocktail offerings.
Bar So’s cocktail list changes periodically to reflect seasonal ingredients and trends, ensuring a fresh experience for repeat visitors. The bartenders are skilled in mixology, often preparing drinks to order with flair and precision. Non-alcoholic cocktails are also available, catering to guests who prefer alcohol-free options.

How is Bar So laid out and what is the atmosphere
Bar So occupies several floors within the Royal Exeter Hotel, each with a distinct atmosphere and purpose. The upstairs bar is bright and sociable, with seating arranged to encourage conversation and relaxed drinking. It includes an outdoor terrace where guests can enjoy drinks in the afternoon sun or take a break from the indoor space. This area suits early evenings, pre-dinner drinks or a quieter night out.
The downstairs area contrasts sharply with the upstairs. It is a darker, club-style space centred around a large dancefloor. Resident DJs play a mix of house, R&B and party classics, creating a lively atmosphere that builds as the night progresses. The sound system is powerful, and the lighting is reactive to the music, enhancing the club experience. VIP areas are located around the dancefloor, offering exclusive seating and bottle service.
Bar So also hosts dance classes midweek, which provide a different vibe before the weekend club nights. These sessions attract a crowd interested in learning and socialising in a more casual setting. Later in the week, the venue transforms into a full nightclub, with a focus on dancing and music.
The combination of floors means that Bar So can cater to different moods in one visit. Guests can start with cocktails on the terrace or upstairs bar and move downstairs when they want to dance. This layout is a key feature that sets Bar So apart from many other Bournemouth nightlife venues.
Where is Bar So and how does it fit into Bournemouth’s nightlife
Bar So is located on Exeter Road in the heart of Bournemouth town centre, within the central Town Centre neighbourhood. This places it just a short walk from the seafront, the Lower Gardens and Bournemouth Pier, making it easy to combine a visit with other evening activities. The Square, a hub for bars and restaurants, is also nearby, providing options for pre- or post-Bar So drinks and dining.
The central location means Bar So is accessible on foot from most town-centre hotels, as well as from Bournemouth railway and bus stations, which are approximately 15 minutes’ walk away. Several public car parks are available in the surrounding streets for those arriving by car.
Exeter Road is a well-known nightlife street in Bournemouth, with a mix of bars, clubs and late-night venues. Bar So’s position in the Grade II listed Royal Exeter Hotel adds a touch of historic character to the area. The venue’s multi-floor format and outdoor terraces make it stand out among other bars in the vicinity.
For visitors wanting to explore more of Bournemouth’s nightlife and dining options, the Food & Drink guide offers a comprehensive overview of nearby restaurants, pubs and bars. The Things to Do section also lists attractions and activities to extend an evening out.
What practical information is important before visiting Bar So
Bar So operates as an over-18s venue, focusing on nightlife for adults rather than families. It is busiest on weekend nights, with opening hours that vary seasonally and according to special events. Confirming the latest opening times on the venue’s website or social media before visiting is recommended to avoid disappointment.
Entry to Bar So usually involves a door policy typical of nightclubs, including ID checks and a dress code that encourages smart casual attire. The venue reserves the right to refuse entry based on these policies. Group bookings and VIP tables require advance reservation, especially for popular nights or celebrations.
VIP tables and bottle service packages are available downstairs and are popular for birthdays, stag and hen parties, and other large group events. Private hire of the venue is also possible for bigger occasions, with tailored packages and dedicated event support.
Getting to Bar So is straightforward. It is within easy walking distance of the town centre and seafront, and public transport links serve Bournemouth well. The railway station and main bus stops are about a 15-minute walk away. For drivers, pay-and-display and multi-storey car parks are located nearby on Exeter Road and adjacent streets.
Bar So’s outdoor terraces provide a place to step outside for fresh air or a quieter conversation between dancefloor sessions. These spaces are particularly pleasant in warmer months but are covered and heated to allow year-round use.
Who is Bar So best suited for
Bar So caters primarily to adults seeking a lively night out in Bournemouth’s town centre. It appeals to a broad range of customers including couples, groups of friends and partygoers. The venue’s mix of cocktail bar and nightclub means it suits those who want both relaxed drinks and dancing in one location.
The upstairs bar and terraces are well suited to those looking for a sociable but less intense environment, such as early evening meet-ups or quieter nights. The downstairs club area attracts a younger crowd and those who want to dance to house, R&B and party music until late.
Bar So is not designed for families or children, and it operates an over-18s age policy. It is also not a venue for casual dining, so visitors should plan to eat elsewhere before or after their visit if food is a priority.
Groups celebrating special occasions will find Bar So’s VIP tables and bottle service attractive, offering a degree of exclusivity and dedicated service. The option to book private hire makes it suitable for larger parties or corporate events.
For those new to Bournemouth nightlife or visiting for the first time, Bar So provides a central, well-established option with a varied atmosphere. It combines the convenience of a town-centre location with the flexibility of multiple floors and outdoor spaces.
For more on Bournemouth’s nightlife and places to eat and drink nearby, see the Food & Drink guide. To plan a full evening with other activities, explore the Things to Do section. For travel and visitor advice, the Visitor Information page offers practical details.