Eating out changes when you are staying somewhere rather than visiting it. The question stops being where the best restaurant in town is and becomes what is good, close and open tonight — a much more useful thing to know.
The seafront and the view
The restaurants built into the cliff at Durley Chine and the dining rooms at Boscombe and West Beach near the pier trade on the view, and mostly deliver on it. They are also the busiest tables in town from May to September, so book ahead if a sea view matters on the night you actually want it. West Beach and Urban Reef are the two names that come up most often.
Where locals actually eat
Away from the seafront, mostly. Westbourne, Southbourne’s Grove Road and the streets inland from Boscombe carry the bulk of the independent restaurants that stay busy through the winter, when the tourist trade thins out and only the genuinely good places keep tables full. Where locals actually eat covers the specifics.
Pubs and bars
The town centre and The Triangle in Westbourne have the highest density of pubs, from traditional ale houses to the busier bar-restaurant format that dominates weekend nights. Boscombe’s Christchurch Road runs a cheaper, more local scene. Most pubs in the centre get genuinely full on a Friday or Saturday night in summer.
Cafés and coffee
Speciality coffee has taken hold here more than the seaside-town stereotype suggests, helped along by a large student population that keeps independent cafés viable year-round. Westbourne and the stretch of Christchurch Road through Boscombe are the strongest concentrations, though good cafés turn up in every neighbourhood on this list.
Finding everything
Several hundred places are plotted on the map, and the ones written up in depth are below, organised into restaurants as their own section. If you want the shorter answer to where to eat tonight, read where locals actually eat.